💡Invention Challenge
It broke. Again. They built it, it fell apart, and now they're ready to throw it across the room. The frustration is real — but so is the fact that they keep coming back to try.
What's actually happening
Carol Dweck's (2006) research identified two mindsets: fixed ('I'm smart or I'm not') and growth ('I can get better with effort'). Children with growth mindsets show greater persistence, higher achievement, and more resilience after failure. The critical factor isn't natural ability — it's how adults respond to struggle. Mueller & Dweck (1998) found that children praised for being 'smart' were more likely to avoid challenges, while children praised for effort sought them out. The difference showed up after just one interaction. Engineering and building activities are powerful growth-mindset domains because failure is visible, tangible, and fixable.
What parents usually try
"You're so clever!"
Ability praise creates pressure to maintain the label. Mueller & Dweck (1998) found that 'smart'-praised children chose easier tasks and lied about their scores more often than effort-praised children.
Fixing it for them
Solves the immediate frustration but teaches that struggle means you need someone else to step in. The child misses the crucial experience of self-repair (Dweck, 2006).
"It doesn't matter if it breaks"
Dismisses the child's investment. It does matter to them. Acknowledging the frustration ('That's really frustrating — what could you try differently?') is more effective.
What actually helps
The story models what Dweck calls 'process praise' in narrative form. The character isn't praised for being brilliant — they're shown persisting through failure and learning from each attempt. The story makes the failures interesting, not shameful: each one reveals something new about how the invention could work. This mirrors engineering education approaches where failure analysis is explicitly valued (Petroski, 2006). The child absorbs the message that struggle is part of making things work, not evidence that they can't.
How this story works
Growth mindset research shows that praising effort over results changes how children respond to failure. The story models the messy middle of invention — where learning actually happens.
What your child hears
Your child's character builds something that doesn't work — three times. But each failure teaches them something new. The final version isn't perfect. It's theirs.
When to use this story
When your child gives up quickly on building or craft projects
After a frustrating failure (a tower falling, a drawing going wrong)
When the child says 'I can't do it' or 'I'm not good at this'
Before activities that involve trial and error
When you want to shift from 'not yet' frustration to curiosity about what went wrong
After the story
The story is the beginning. Here's how to keep it going:
“What did they learn from the mistake?”
“Why is it good to try again?”
“What would you invent?”
Try this
Design and iterate on an invention
The research behind this approach(show)
Educational adventures based on research-backed learning theories.
- Dweck, C. S. (2006). Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Random House.
- Bandura, A. (1977). Self-efficacy: Toward a unifying theory of behavioral change. Psychological Review.
- Durlak, J. A., et al. (2011). The impact of enhancing students' social and emotional learning: A meta-analysis of school-based universal interventions. Child Development, 82(1), 405–432.
- CASEL. (2020). CASEL's SEL Framework.
- Bybee, R. W. (2006). The 5E Instructional Model. NSTA.